Monday, April 8, 2013

The Proverbs 31 Mother

A Mother of noble character who can find?
Her worth is far above rubies.
Her husband looks upon her in awe,
and with unyielding confidence and trust.
She does him and his children good
all the days of her life.


She carries her babes with grace and elegance
while feeding her family and caring for home.
Though tired and burdened with change,
she recognizes the needs of her husband
Her children look on her with love. 



She finds strength in the Lord when new babies take form
and she prays unceasingly for them and her others.
Her arms are strong from her life of mothering
her hands rough from planting seeds of Christ.
Her heart is mighty from dwelling outside of her.



She opens her arms to the needy 
she does not turn away from a cry for help.
She has Grace written upon her and is clothed in
humility, compassion, justice and love.
Her coverings reflect the beauty within
and even when pregnant she does not hide in shadows.


She brings her husband honor, he is respected wherever he goes.
She is known far and wide for her graceful mothering,
her quiet spirit, peaceful heart and adoration of her beloved.
Even those who she has never met
Praise her husband because of her.
He is held high at the gates.


She is not afraid to be open to her beloved
She gives herself freely to him.
She can define herself between wife and mother.
Even when her body becomes round with babes,
She remembers her body is his
and delights in it.


She is clothed with strength and dignity
and can find joy amidst the chaos of life.
She fights for her family and does not fear the seasons
She speaks with wisdom on her tongue 
and communicates faithful instruction to her children.
Her children call her blessed.


She understands her body will change as she gives life to her children
and that youthful beauty ebbs slowly away,
She embraces the change with courage and faith
Understanding that giving life to her family requires sacrifice.
She is not afraid for she knows where true beauty lies
and willingly gives of herself.


Her husband praises her:
"Many mothers do noble things, 
care for children, care for home, care for me,
but you surpass them all!"


Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting,
but a mother who fears the Lord is to be praised.

Praise her and honor her for she has answered a high calling.

*All images from Briony Hope Photography*

Sunday, April 7, 2013

30 Weeks

Pregnancy is like a checklist of milestones!  First you have the pregnancy test, then the 12 week mark, then the big ultrasound (18 weeks), then the halfway point (20 weeks), then start of the third trimester (27 weeks), then 30 weeks (because after all you are 3 quarters down), then 36 weeks (full term), then 40, then BABY!  Each of these milestones feels like a glorious success and should be celebrated in style if you ask me!  For this milestone, my fellow pregnant friend Sarah and I decided to take advantage of the nice weather and head to the zoo!



I don't really know why, but hitting the 30 week mark has been AMAZING!  I loved turning 30 years, but this 30 week mark makes me giddy.  Sure I still have 10 more weeks, but thats the beauty, only 10 more weeks until Evie Frances will be in my arms, in the flesh.  I just cannot wait to meet her.



Evie is so active right now and so strong.  I think her little feet are in my ribs because when she kicks, I FEEL it!  Her residency resides primarily on the right side of my tummy and she is getting so big that sometimes I find my tummy very uneven.  I love it! We have one final ultrasound in 2 weeks and I am looking forward to seeing her cute little figure again!

This past week I had to take my glucose test.  Its another one of those milestones that you have to get past and the test is kind of yucky.  They make you drink an orange syrup-like drink (12 ounces of it) in 5 minutes, sit for an hour and then have your blood drawn to see if you are glucose intolerant.  Unfortunately, if you throw up the drink, or throw off the results by having any sugar or carbs in the morning you have to come back to do it again.  I still deal with daily nausea so praying that I would keep it down became a daily request.  I drank my drink and then called a friend all the while coaching myself, "Mind over matter Bethany, don't throw up."  I made it, got my blood drawn and managed to skip the toilet!  YEAH!  Two days later I got the call that I passed with flying colors!  That's my A+ blood for you!  Bob told me later, "Honey, you may not be a valedictorian in pregnancy, but you can still pass your tests!"  Amen!

As this last quarter slowly ebbs by I am focusing on enjoying ever minute of this pregnancy.  No, its still not easy, but 10 weeks is not that long before I will be chasing around 2 little doe eyed girls.  Evie will be out, in the big world with her big sister, where keeping them safe will be that much harder.



My heart will once again dwell outside of my body and now in two parts.